"A generation that cannot endure boredom will be a generation of little
men." - British Philosopher Bertrand Russell, The Conquest of Happiness (London,1932), p65.
"Boredom is the root of all evil - the despairing refusal to be oneself." - Soren Kierkegaard.
"...boredom is time’s invasion of your world system. It puts your life
into perspective, and the net result is precisely insight and
humility. The former gives rise to the latter, not a bene. The more you
learn about your own format, the humbler and more sympathetic you become
to your fellow-beings, to this dust that swirls in the sun’s ray or
that already lies motionless on your table top." - Joseph Brodsky, ‘In Praise of
Boredom’, in On Grief and Reason (New York,1995).
"Boredom has to be accepted as an unavoidable fact, as life’s own
gravity." - Professor Lars Svendsen, A Philosophy of Boredom (2005), p154.
"To endure is the first thing that a child ought to learn, and that which he will have the most need to know." - Jean-Jacques Rousseau
"Our unexciting way of practice may appear to be very negative. This is not so. It is a wise and effective way to work on ourselves. It is just very plain. I find this point very difficult for people, especially young people, to understand." - Zen Master Shunryu Suzuki, Zen Mind, Beginner's Mind (1995), p58.
"Mindfulness meditation can feel exciting and illuminating at times, but it can also feel downright boring, especially in the early stages, until we learn how to work with mind states and feeling states such as boredom." - Dr. Jon Kabat-Zinn, The Mindful Way Through Depression (2007), p229.
When I began meditating mindfully, I started to see what habits had been nurtured in me - an
addiction to exciting stimuli, and appetites which numbed my awareness.
When I began to lower my consumption of exciting and numbing stimuli, boredom began
to rear it's ugly head more often than ever before. Dealing with boredom
became (and still is) a big feature of my mindfulness practice, and so the following is an investigation of the existence and effects of boredom in society, and how mindfulness meditation teachers engage with it.
Lars Svendsen, professor in the Department of Philosophy at the University of Bergen, Norway, says in his book, '
A Philosophy of Boredom', p142:
"it goes against every fibre in your being not to try and shrug yourself free of boredom."
and, p23:
"we cannot face tackling time that is ‘empty’."
Professor Svendsen uses characters presented in the novel '
William Lovell' to illustrate the state of extreme boredom quite nicely:
"William
demands that the world satisfy him and be interesting, but he can find
nothing of interest, and his daily complaint is that he is bored to
death; the world as such is a vast prison. He conceives the world
and its inhabitantsas lacking all originality or capacity to fascinate
him. From time to time he reaches a temporary state of euphoria or
‘lustful intoxication’, but
this always rapidly passes away. Man as such no longer ‘interests’
William, and every single face ‘bores him’." p65
And so what comes out of such a state? As Dr. Jon Kabat-Zinn says in his book,
Full Catastrophe Living (2005), p64:
"If the mind says, "This is boring," then before you know it, the body
is up and looking around for the next thing to do to keep the mind
happy. [...] If the body feels the
slightest discomfort, it will shift to be more comfortable or it will
call on the mind to find something else for it to do, and again, you
will be standing up literally before you know it."
He also mentions how children react to boredom in unhealthy ways, p417:
"Many children are addicted to TV and don't know· what to do with
themselves when it is off. It is such an easy escape from boredom that
they are not challenged to find other ways of dealing with time, such as
through imaginative play, drawing, painting, and reading."
Immersing oneself in the huge ocean of media on the internet also doesn't seem to solve our problems. Vietnamese Zen Master Thich Nhat Hanh writes, in his book
The Sun, My Heart (1988), p39:
"Contemporary music, literature, and entertainment do little to help with healing; to the contrary much of it compounds the bitterness, desperation, and weariness we all feel."
So what are the standard, more healthy approaches for tackling boredom? Svendsen, when discussing methods of neutralising boredom writes, p141:
"In Zen and the Art of Motorcycle
Maintenance Robert Pirsig simply recommended sleep as a means of
combating boredom. Obviously, this must work, but the effect is
unfortunately only temporary, and hardly relevant for anything except
situative boredom. ... one cannot just sleep all the time."
This forces us to consider what the effect on society is, as individual people, driven by such suffering as outlined above, interact and send ripples out across the world. Without any way of accepting their pain as part of a necessary process of letting go of unhealthy appetites, it seems people cause more suffering for others as they run away from their own suffering. An American sociologist called
Robert Nisbet, in the chapter titled 'Boredom' in his book
Prejudices: A Philosophical Dictionary (Cambridge,
MA, and London,1982), writes, p.28:
"Boredom may become Western man’s greatest source of
unhappiness. Catastrophe alone would appear to be the surest and, in
today’s world, the most likely of liberations from boredom."
A French author and WW1 soldier,
Georges Bernanos, in his work
The Diary of a Country Priest, writes:
" ...if the human
race disappears, it will be out of ennui and boredom. Mankind will
gradually be consumed ... Look at these world wars, for example, which
apparently bear witness to a violent vitality in man but which actually
prove its growing lethargy. It will end with vast numbers being led to
the slaughter at certain times."
Professor Svendsen reflects upon this violent reaction to boredom in
A Philosophy of Boredom, when he writes, p39-40:
"Boredom leads to most things appearing
to be a tempting alternative, and it might seem as if what we really
need is a fresh war or a major catastrophe. [...] Boredom gives a sort
of pallid foretaste of death, and one could imagine that violent actual
death would be preferable, that one would prefer the world to end with a
bang rather than with a miserable little whimper."
It seems that the mind, feeling trapped in cyclical - turbulent - episodes of excitement, sedation, and boredom, desperately seeks a way out through a possible premature death at the hands of others - a kind of suicide by proxy perhaps. If life is intense suffering already, then death is not as daunting a prospect as it should be. Bertrand Russell emphasises this dimension in
The Conquest of Happiness when he writes, p68:
"Among those who are rich enough to choose their way of life, the particular brand of unendurable boredom from which they suffer is due, paradoxical as this may seem, to their fear of boredom. In flying from the fructifying kind of boredom, they fall a prey to the other far worse kind."
Such a position is a far cry from what life - living, sentient beings - is apparently all about, however - the instinct to preserve and nuture life is present within all of us, and it longs to be satisfied, even though, of course, it must inevitably come to an end. It appears it was this dimension to human life that caused Siddhartha Gautama, the future Buddha, to leave his comforts and his palace life and go in search of liberation from cyclical suffering. As the Vietnamese Zen teacher Thich Nhat Hanh relates in his book,
Old Path, White Clouds: Walking in the footsteps of the Buddha, p109:
"The king stood up and grabbed his son’s hand. “Siddhartha, you know
how much I need you. You are the one on whom I have placed all my hopes.
Please, don’t abandon me.”
“I will never abandon you. I am only asking you to let me go away for a time. When I have found the Way, I will return.”
A
look of pain crossed King Suddhodana’s face. He said no more and
retired to his quarters.[...] in the early evening, Udayin, one of
Siddhartha’s friends, came to visit [...] Udayin had organized a party
and had hired one of the finest dancing troupes in the capital to
perform. Festive torches brightened the palace. ... Udayin had been summoned by the king and given the task to do
everything he could think of to entice Siddhartha to remain in the
palace. The evening’s party was the first of Udayin’s plans."
The party did not manage to entice Siddhartha to remain in the palace, however - his searching mind overpowered his appetites for entertainment, and he went off to seek liberation from the suffering associated with birth and death.
As part of his training under various teachers, Siddhartha Gautama constantly questioned the reality within and around him - watching his mind and body in the here-and-now. It seems it was this process which eventually gave him his deep insight. Following in Gautama's footsteps, Kabat-Zinn writes in
Full Catastrophe Living, p64:
"If you are genuinely
committed to being more peaceful and relaxed, you might wonder why it is
that your mind is so quick to be bored with being with itself and why
your body is so restless and uncomfortable. You might wonder what is
behind your impulses to fill each moment with something; what is behind
your need to be entertained whenever you have an "empty" moment, to jump
up and get going, to get back to doing and being busy? What drives the
body and mind to reject being still?"
There are apparently no clear answers as to why we feel bored at times, but I find that making contact with boredom - as an experience - is almost like a kind of
exposure therapy - and it deepens my mindfulness practice. Professor Svendsen says in
A Philosophy of Boredom, p132:
"Boredom does not lead us to any profound, encompassing understanding
of ‘the meaning of Being’, but it can tell us something about how we
actually lead our lives."
Kabat-Zinn, in
The Mindful Way Through Depression, writes of boredom arising during meditation, p83:
"We might wind up telling ourselves that nothing useful or interesting seems to be happening; the mind is just wandering uncontrollably, even as we persist in bringing it back over and over again to a sense of the breath moving in the body, or whatever our primary focus of attention may be. "How boring," the mind says to itself."
If boredom is something we fear and react to; something which causes us to jump up and busy ourselves, then it seems natural that if we can be 'OK' with boredom, then it will not cause us to react and give birth to unhealthy behaviours. Soto Zen teacher Charlotte Joko Beck, in the chapter titled 'It's OK', in her book
Everyday Zen (1997) says of seated mindfulness meditation:
"As we sit through it an understanding slowly increases: “Yes, I’m going through this and I don’t like it—wish I could run out—and somehow, it’s OK.”"
Regarding the therapeutic dimension connected to facing one's fears, in the book '
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy for Dummies' (2010), the authors write, p126-7:
"Supported by numerous clinical trials, and used daily all over the world, the principle of facing your fears until your anxiety reduces is one of the cornerstones of CBT. The process of deliberately confronting your fear and staying within the feared situation until your anxiety subsides is known as exposure or desensitisation. The process of getting used to something, like cold water in a swimming pool, is called habituation. The principle is to wait until your anxiety reduces by at least half before ending your session of exposure – usually between twenty minutes and one hour, but sometimes more.
... if you deliberately confront your fears, your anxiety becomes less severe and reduces more quickly with each exposure. The more exposures you experience, the better. When you first confront your fears, aim to repeat your exposures at least daily."
It seems this is exactly the process which occurs when one sits down in mindful meditation. There is this idea that facing boredom will somehow kill us, and it may indeed kill a part of us - some unnecessary and unhealthy appetite for entertainment on demand, but the idea that boredom can somehow destroy us outright like dynamite is apparently very wrong. Even Professor Svendson intimates the value of facing boredom head-on, p141-2:
" ...to
experience boredom is to experience a piece of reality. Rather than
immediately happen on an antidote to boredom, there could be some point
in lingering and maybe finding some kind of meaning in boredom itself. It
is not possible to completely deselect boredom or some other mood, but
one can choose to recognize it or to repress it.[...] ...without the
ability to tolerate a certain degree of boredom one will live a
miserable life, because life will be lived as a continuous flight from
boredom. So all children ought to be brought up to be able to be bored.
To activate a child at all times is to neglect an important part of
child-rearing. [...] Boredom contains a potential. In boredom an emptying takes place, and
an emptiness can be a receptiveness, although it does not have to be it.
Boredom pulls things out of their usual contexts. It can open ways up
for a new configuration of things, and therefore also for a new meaning,
by virtue of the fact that it has already deprived things of meaning.
Boredom, because of its negativity, contains the possibility of a
positive turn-around. ...boredom gives you a perspective on your own
existence, where you realize your own insignificance in the greater
context."
Unfortunately Svendsen doesn't go any deeper than this, although there is an interesting link between what he relates in his analysis of
William Lovett and a MBSR mindfulness introduction technique createded by Dr. Jon Kabat-Zinn. Svendsen writes, p65:
"William, though, is not the only person who is bored –
practically all the characters are. One of William’s friends, Karl
Wilmont, writes that ‘This boredom has already brought more unhappiness
into the world than all the passions put together. The soul shrivels up
like a dried plum.’"
What would be to happen if Karl Wilmont decided to sit down in relaxed awareness and investigate his shrivelled, dried plum of a soul right there 'in the moment' with all his attention? Kabat-Zinn seems to have the answer in
Full Catastrophe Living, as he relates the mindful exploration of a raisin, p27-28:
"we
bring our attention to seeing the raisin, observing it carefully as if
we had never seen one before. We feel its texture between our fingers
and notice its colors and surfaces. We are also aware of any thoughts we
might be having about raisins or food in general. We note any thoughts
and feelings of liking or disliking raisins if they come up while we are
looking at it. [...] The response to this exercise is invariably positive, even among the people who don't like raisins."
But what of situations more intimidating than raisin-eating? - What of soul-shrivelling boredom?
In another of his books on mindfulness practice,
Wherever You Go, There You Are (2004), Kabat-Zinn says the following of boredom, in the section titled 'Non-Judging', p55-56:
"When you dwell in stillness, the judging mind can come through like a foghorn. I don't like the pain in my knee .... This is boring. ... I like this feeling of stillness; I had a good meditation yesterday, but today I'm having a bad meditation. ... It's not working for me. I'm no good at this. I'm no good, period. This type of thinking dominates the mind and weighs it down. It's like carrying around a suitcase full of rocks on your head. It feels good to put it down. Imagine how it might feel to suspend all your judging and instead to let each moment be just as it is, without attempting to evaluate it as "good" or "bad." This would be a true stillness, a true liberation."
So the method to facing boredom successfully is to drop the judgement. In
Full Catastrophe Living, Kabat-Zinn says of this process, p34:
"At a certain point you may find your mind saying something like, "This
is boring," or "This isn't working," or "I can't do this." These are
judgments. When they come up in your mind, it is very important to
recognize them as judgmental thinking and remind yourself that the
practice involves suspending judgment and just watching whatever comes
up, including your own judging thoughts, without pursuing them or acting
on them in any way."
Suspending judgement allows one to accept whatever necessary situation is occuring, and allows it to pass by in it's own time. Kabat-Zinn further illustrates the practice as follows, p64:
"we just observe the impulse to get up [out of boredom] or the thoughts
[about boredom] that come into the mind. And instead of jumping up and
doing whatever the mind decides is next on the agenda, we gently but
firmly bring our attention back to the belly and to the breathing and
just continue to watch the breath, moment by moment. We may ponder why
the mind is like this for a moment or two, but basically we are
practicing accepting each moment as it is without reacting to how it is.
So we keep sitting, following our breathing."
And so a more unexciting, yet calmer and stable, way of life unfolds from this practice - traditionally boring necessary situations are no longer met with adversity and 'suffered', and the presence of boredom in one's mindfulness meditation can be seen as a gift - to practice being more 'OK' with empty time - to weed one's psychic garden and bury the weeds as fertiliser for the more noble plants to grow stronger.
As one's practice deepens, however, even getting excited about mindfulness needs to be met with caution. As Zen Master Shunryu Suzuki says in
Zen Mind, Beginner's Mind, p57-58:
"Zen is not some kind of excitement, but concentration on our usual
everyday routine. If you become too busy and too excited, your mind
becomes rough and ragged. This is not good. If possible, try to be
always calm and joyful and keep yourself from excitement. [...] Zen is
not something to get excited about. Some people start to practice Zen
just out of curiosity, and they only make themselves busier. [...] When
young people get excited about Zen they often give up schooling and go
to some mountain or forest in order to sit. That kind of interest is not
true interest."
There is plenty of joy to be had outside of excitement.
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The author enjoying a mountain waterfall in South China. |